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Kyle and her husband moved to Brookfield in 1986. She became active in local politics and started blogging in 2004. Her focus is primarily on local issues but often includes state and national topics, too. Kyle looks at things from the taxpayers’ perspective in a creative, yet down to earth way, addressing them from a practical point of view.

The softer side of Michelle Obama

By Kyle Prast
Tuesday, Aug 26 2008, 01:11 PM

So, Why do we need change? 

I listened to Michelle Obama last night. She spoke about how she and Barack came from humble roots. No trace of her for the first time I''m really proud of my country attitude. She did a nice job, but her persona last night was quite different from the Michelle of the campaign trail.

It was very clear she had wonderful parents. She spoke passionately about how they were hard working and dedicated to their family. When she spoke about them, I believe it was from her heart. From the transcript: (My emphasis throughout)

He [My dad] and my mom poured everything they had into me and Craig. It was the greatest gift a child can receive: never doubting for a single minute that you're loved, and cherished, and have a place in this world. And thanks to their faith and hard work, we both were able to go on to college. So I know firsthand from their lives — and mine — that the American dream endures.

She then spoke of Barack's background and how even though he was raised by a single mom and grandparents, they shared those same values: that you work for what you value. 

And you know, what struck me when I first met Barack was that even though he had this funny name, even though he'd grown up all the way across the continent in Hawaii, his family was so much like mine. He was raised by grandparents who were working class folks just like my parents, and by a single mother who struggled to pay the bills just like we did. Like my family, they scrimped and saved so that he could have opportunities they never had themselves. And Barack and I were raised with so many of the same values: that you work hard for what you want in life; that your word is your bond and you do what you say you're going to do; that you treat people with dignity and respect, even if you don't know them, and even if you don't agree with them.

I could relate to her speech. I was raised in a blue collar family. My parents did not go to college; my father did not even attend high school. I was the first in the family to go to college and they scrimped and saved to make that possible. God blessed me with fantastic parents who instilled in me the very same values that Michelle extolled.  

And Barack and I set out to build lives guided by these values, and pass them on to the next generation. Because we want our children — and all children in this nation — to know that the only limit to the height of your achievements is the reach of your dreams and your willingness to work for them. 

Hard work is the common thread to achievement. She then goes on to talk about how she and her husband have made sacrifices to serve their country, a country which she admits has given her much.

And in my own life, in my own small way, I've tried to give back to this country that has given me so much. That's why I left a job at a law firm for a career in public service, working to empower young people to volunteer in their communities. Because I believe that each of us — no matter what our age or background or walk of life — each of us has something to contribute to the life of this nation.

Very nice. It is good to give back. But that life of public service is hardly on the same plane as joining the Peace Corps or something. The Obama's live very comfortably serving the public and are considered rich by most American people's standards. Don't get me wrong, they have every right to make money--I am all for it. I guess I just take exception to the idea that they somehow are living sacrificially now. I suppose all things are relative.

She concludes with, 

And as I tuck that little girl and her little sister into bed at night, I think about how one day, they'll have families of their own. And one day, they — and your sons and daughters — will tell their own children about what we did together in this election. They'll tell them how this time, we listened to our hopes, instead of our fears. How this time, we decided to stop doubting and to start dreaming. How this time, in this great country — where a girl from the South Side of Chicago can go to college and law school, and the son of a single mother from Hawaii can go all the way to the White House — we committed ourselves to building the world as it should be. (Then a pitch to vote for Barack.)

But if an African American blue collar worker (without a college education) from the south side of Chicago could produce a Princeton schooled lawyer, who is now a potential First Lady of the land, and a single mom on food stamps along with dedicated grandparents can send a son to private school, and that son goes onto Harvard and is the Democrat's candidate for president, doesn't this prove America already is the land of opportunity? There is room for improvement, of course.

Michelle acknowledged the "American Dream endures." As she summed up the reason for their success, notice that it was the simple principle of HARD WORK that got both of them to this unique moment in history.

Michelle Obama did a good job with her speech--it just did not ring true to me. I don't think what she said last night supported the need for the kind of "Change" her husband's campaign promotes.

Campaign signs of Common Values/Common Purpose abounded in the audience. I share the values of hard work and sacrifice Michelle spoke about. What I don't share is Obama's vision for our nation's future.


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Comments

mikeyd   

Hi Kyle,

You don't share in Obama's vision? I never would have guessed. ;)

It is a bit too late to dig into the Obama's as being rich and out of touch now that the cat has been let out of the bag by McCain.

McCain was not able to answer the question of how many houses he owns (at least 7), and in response to a question stated that someone has to make $5 million a year to be rich.  The Obamas? One house.  Barack responded to the same question of how to define rich, and he said any family that makes $250K or more a year is well off. It seems the Obama's are much closer to mainstream in family situation and wealth and much more in touch with middle class or upper middle class people like some of us, rather than multimillionaire Washington policitians. Yes, McCain is very wealthy, though most is in his wife's name.

It also seemed to me, and based on your excerpts, that Mrs. Obama's speech was about her and her husband as people, about values and beliefs, not about politics.

Like you mention, she spoke from the heart, and seem to hit the mark perfectly.

Kyle's reply: I did not mean to insinuate that he was rich and out of touch, just that they were not living the life of a church mouse serving the public.

I have no doubts that she loves her children and parents deeply. She presented a very different side of herself.

August 26, 2008 1:51 PM

contrarian   

You won't be surprized to learn that I, too, thought Michelle Obama did a fine job.

In the big picture, this speech actually gives us a reason to watch either party's convention.  One one level, these are highly biased bashfests, so predictable, so boring.  At another level, there are moments that may give insight to the humans running for office.  You stated that "she presented a very different side of herself."  Could it be that the image of a pushy, angry Michelle Obama is more a creation of her opposition's image machine than any reality?  There is no doubt that Michelle Obama's speech was crafted to a certain message, but I think it is also possible that for the first time we saw the real Michelle Obama.

Political campaigns are extremely negative, and the real people in these public events are lost in the fog of incrimination and distortion.

I am glad we got a real glimpse of Mrs. Obama.

Kyle's reply: Sorry I did not post your comment sooner. The more recent ones were long so yours did not show up.

I don't think the image of a pushy, angry Michelle Obama is a creation of the opposition but rather reflects her views on topics other than her own family. Last night she was primarily speaking about her parents, her childhood, her children and life with Barack. She did seem to have wonderful, sacrificing parents. Her south side of Chicago girl makes it big story is the American dream, so she could speak of it in glowing, positive terms. 

But when I have heard her speak of how women wake up every day full of dread and despair and how unfair it is that she must care for a sick child or is stuck taking the kids to the doctor while Barack goes off to work or how single mothers shouldn't try harder, her own words make her sound angry.
 

August 26, 2008 3:42 PM

kathryn   

I'm sure the softer Michelle is as true as the edgy outspoken Michelle--we are multifaceted beings--but the whole ritual bugs me, this remaking of the candidates' wives into June Cleaver First Ladies.  Rodham became Clinton when Bill was running.  Mrs. McCain is publishing recipes.  Mrs. Obama has to look more mom and less attorney.  It's wrongheaded.

August 26, 2008 4:35 PM

Santa's Elf   

Yea, I here that Eva Braun had a soft side too! But that doesn't make her Princess Summer-Fall-Winter-Spring. And I know that Hitler liked puppy's! But he was no Mr. Rogers!

She said: "we committed ourselves to building the world as it should be"

Is the world "as it should be" anything like the one acted out in the late 1960's by long-time Obama croney William Ayers, founder of the Weather Underground and his wife Bernadette Dorn? Obama and Ayers seem to have a history in 60's and 70's South Chicago. Oh, and did she mention that in the 80's she worked with Bernadette at a Chicago law firm?

Now, all of that doesn't indict Obama of Weather Underground bombings, and I don't mean to imply that it does. But it certainly does beg the question as to exactly why - if Obama was such a patriot - he wasn't in uniform while his brothers were off to war.

Let's hear more about the real Obama. Perhaps we will come to realize that his original choice of churches fit him to a tee.

Kyle, I too liked her speech. But it was just that: nothing but a speech. Like the little old lady used to ask: "Where's the beef?".

Kyle's reply: Oh, Santa's Elf, don't sugar coat it, tell it to us straight!

August 27, 2008 1:00 AM

mikeyd   

It does speak volumes, and hopefully it will be the same for Mrs McCain, that Michelle Obama's speech is being spoken of in fairly glowing terms even by those on the other side of the aisle. Of course, it wasn't a political speech but did give insight into the people that the Obama's are, which was necessary after all the negative attacks on both of them recently.

Hopefully we have gotten past nitpicking about the color of the dress she wore, or the plagarism of a cookie recipe. Hopefully after these next couple of weeks, policitical ads will be more positive and informative and the mud throwing will also decrease (i know, my own fantasy). If you have seen the commercial for Barack Obama referring to how hands that build roofs could install solar panels, job creation from new technologies will boost the economy and help our energy crisis... I saw that and felt that it had to be the most positive political ad produced in decades and it really felt true and hit many of my important issues.  Hopefully stuff like the radio commercial by McCain in low impending deathly tones about how Obama has big plans.... for Your Money.... filled with half baked heresay and funny math projections as if they are absolutes, will go away and maybe we will hear what is actually important to McCain.

August 27, 2008 9:38 AM

kathryn   

"But it certainly does beg the question as to exactly why - if Obama was such a patriot - he wasn't in uniform while his brothers were off to war."

He was in school, elementary school.  The man is 46 years old, give or take.

August 27, 2008 11:51 AM

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